Last weekend we were on
vacation in a cabin somewhere in the woods, which was already nice and calming
by itself (well, aside from the storm, power outage and flat tire…). But what
was even more relaxing was the fact that we had too little 3G reception to be
able to access the internet. Before I had a smartphone I said that I never
wanted a smartphone because it would mean that I would be able to check my
email at any given moment. A couple of
my worst vacation memories are the times when we decided to quickly check our
email after more than a week of being on a tropical beach only to find out that
a paper was rejected. I felt that I didn’t want to be connected to the internet
the entire time.
But that was three
years ago, before I bought an iPhone that I am as attached to as I am to
BlueEyes. So now I check my email when I’m making breakfast, I read twitter
when I’m pumping milk and I read blogs when I’m nursing BlueEyes at night (only
after he has fallen asleep, because otherwise he constantly wants to see what I’m
doing with my phone). The only thing Dr. BrownEyes and I have agreed not to do
is to check our phones when we’re eating dinner.
And whenever I read anarticle
saying that smartphones cause stress I thought that that didn’t apply to me.
That I could just check my email but then not worry about it and go on with my
day. But being without internet this weekend made me realize that it’s pretty
refreshing to not be able to check your email or your twitter stream. That it’s pretty peaceful to decide what to
think by yourself and not have your thoughts guided by emails, tweets or
facebook posts coming in.
However, because of the
storm and subsequent power outage we got moved to another (much bigger and
nicer cabin) that had wireless internet. And even though I had realized how
nice and quiet it was without internet, I couldn’t help but relapse into
checking my email and twittering about the fact that we had power and internet
again.
What about you? Do you
feel more relaxed without access to internet? And are you compulsively checking
your phone the whole day?
i too have learned the hard way that you really really really don't want to check email at certain times in your life :) I see that as a valuable lesson of adulthood
ReplyDeleteI'm always quite happy to be away from email/internet contact. I figure that nothing is THAT important that it can wait a few days.
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